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What to Wear to a Black-Tie Wedding as a Guest

When the dress code calls for black tie wedding guest dresses, the first thing you might do is panic – how formal are we talking? Are short dresses allowed? Can I wear black?

Few events require as much formality as a black-tie wedding. But worry not. The look is actually quite straightforward to achieve. Black tie dress code calls for floor-length maxi dresses and gowns. In some case you can get away with a shorter hemline, as long as it comes with a few oomph-inducing details. 

We are taking out the guess work and present you 20 Curated wedding guest dresses that are sure to wow and black tie event.

What is Black Tie Dress Code?

Simply put, black tie attire is reserved for formal events. Think Oscar ceremonies. The guests are required to wear floor-length gowns and tuxedos with high heels and formal shoes. It is the second most formal attire after white tie, which has more strict set of rules (men must wear white bow ties and women ball gowns). 

Black Tie Attire Checklist for Women:

  • Evening floor-length gowns
  • Ball gowns
  • Formal cocktail dresses of appropriate material
  • Formal shoes
  • Elegant jewelry 

What to Wear to a Black-Tie Wedding as a Female Guest

When attending a black-tie wedding as a female guest, elegance and formality are key. The silhouette of your ensemble can vary based on the venue, season, and locale of the wedding, one aspect that can’t be compromised is the length of a dress, with floor-length looks being the recommended choice for black-tie affairs.

Darker colors like black, navy, or deep jewel tones are traditionally preferred, but you can also choose softer or more vibrant hues depending on the season and time of day. Just make sure that white, off-white or anything resembling white is off-limits. Apart from that, the only hue you might want to avoid is the color the bride has chosen for her bridesmaid dresses.

Accessorize with statement jewelry such as pearl or diamond earrings and a matching clutch. Finish your look with high-heeled shoes that complement your dress. Remember, a black-tie event is an opportunity to showcase sophisticated style, so ensure your outfit reflects both the formality of the occasion and your personal elegance.

Cygnet embellished sequined tulle gown
$3,820

Veronica Corset Ruffle Side-Slit Dress
$575.00

Blair off-the-shoulder appliquéd silk-georgette maxi dress
$1,215

Renaissance Halter Side-Slit Pleated Maxi Dress
$395.00

Giana high neck draped midi dress

$189.00

Applique Organdie Halter Woven Maxi Dress
$444.00

Guipure Lace Pleat Border Print Woven Maxi Dress
$525.00

Bora draped one-sleeve belted silk-satin gown
$2,290.00

Avena Midi Ombre Ski
$845

Odel linen blend drape maxi dress
$248

Satin Asymmetric scarf neck backless maxi
$180.00

Pearl Embellished Open Back Maxi Dress
$598.40

Rosalynn dress
$378.00

Kat gown
$1,100.00

Leilani dress
$348.00

Misa Los Angeles Thora Dress
$370.00

Athena Pleated Cutout Gown
$397.50

Burgundi bandeau feather dress
$225.00

What Not to Wear

When dressing for a black-tie wedding, there are certain fashion faux pas to avoid to maintain the event’s formal atmosphere. Firstly, steer clear of overly casual attire such as jeans, shorts, or casual t-shirts, as they are far too informal for a black-tie setting. Dresses that are too short or revealing should also be avoided; the aim is to embody elegance and respect for the occasion’s formality. It’s wise to refrain from wearing white or ivory to ensure you don’t detract from the bride on her special day. Similarly, overly flashy or neon colors can be distracting and may not align with the event’s sophisticated tone. Lastly, while it’s important to express your personal style, remember that a black-tie wedding is not the venue for experimental fashion trends that stray too far from traditional formalwear guidelines. Keeping these guidelines in mind will help you choose an outfit that is both appropriate and stylish for a black-tie wedding.

Shoes for Black Tie Wedding

Selecting the right shoes for a black-tie wedding is essential to completing your formal look. High-heeled shoes or sophisticated flats made from luxurious materials like satin, patent leather, or embellished fabric are the ideal choices. Classic pumps or strappy sandals in neutral colors such as black, silver, or gold can complement a wide range of evening gowns, enhancing the overall sophistication of your attire. It’s important to consider both style and comfort; opt for shoes you can confidently walk and dance in throughout the event.

Consider investing in a pair with cushioned insoles or choosing a heel height that you are comfortable with to ensure you can enjoy the festivities from start to finish. Remember, the right pair of shoes not only adds to the aesthetic appeal of your outfit but also empowers you to move gracefully and comfortably, making them a crucial element of your black-tie wedding guest ensemble. 

Slingbacks with faux pearls
£29.99

Crystal embellished pumps
£845.00

Rosie glass slingback pumps
£805.00

Nappa Leather Sling Back Pumps with Flowers
£45.00

M&S

Kitten heel slingbacks
£35.00

Kitten heel shoes
£32.99

Metallic leather slingback pumps
£795.00

Leather slingback pumps
£139.00

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